Tired Discourse – Do Bisexuals Exist?

In January of 2025, the good folks at Defector.com published a list of 35 topics that have been discussed to within an inch of their life here on the internet.  Lucky for me, I haven’t publicly commented on most, if not all, of these topics, so I figured why not dip my toes into the fray on occasion.  We will continue today with the third question on their list:

Do Bisexuals Exist?

Yes.

Oh, you want more? I think one of the biggest fallacies of human existence is that sexuality is a binary.  There is so much evidence, both in human behavior and in animal behavior in nature, that proves otherwise, that sexuality is a spectrum.  Some people (probably less than you think) do tilt the extreme ends of each side of the spectrum, while the vast majority fall somewhere along the line.

There’s an old saying that “all women are inherently bisexual” and I think the truth to that is that it is more socially acceptable for women to show any form of bisexuality than it is for men.  Two drunk “straight” women kissing at a party is met with raucous cheers.  Imagine the reaction if two men did the same.

Book 26 (of 52) – The Grave Artist

The Grave Artist – Jeffery Deaver and Isabella Maldonado

When their sophisticated AI identifies that a death at a wedding ruled accidental may in fact be a homicide, HSI agent Carmer Sanchez and her civilian partner Jake Heron find themselves on the trail of a potential serial killer.  While they track down the killer, Sanchez’s sister digs deeper into their father’s murder.  When the two cases intertwine, Sanchez and Huron have to hurry to stop the killer before his next victim hits too close to home.

Jeffery Deaver and Isabella Maldonado return for The Grave Artist, the second entry in their Sanchez & Heron series.  The tale once again includes plenty of twists and turns, including the introduction of a blatantly incompetent new temporary boss who hopefully will not be heard from again.  The ending set this group up as an ongoing concern in-universe, so I expect we will be seeing a new entry sooner rather than later.

 

No Bets For You

After just two years, DraftKings announced that they will be shuttering their in-person sportsbook hanging off the side of Wrigley Field on May 31.  In a statement, the company says, “The cost of operating in Illinois, including its high tax structure, makes it more difficult to justify continued investment in a standalone retail sportsbook.”  The sports bar part of the operation will continue, as will the DraftKings sponsorship.

As part of this change, the area should become a little more accessible.  With the removal of the sportsbook, the requirement to be 21 to enter should be removed.  Additionally, fans will be able to enter and exit into the ballpark itself eventually, similar to Gallagher Way.  That change will likely limit the building on game days to those with a ticket.

Short term, there should be no financial impact for the Cubs.  The original deal was $100 million for ten years and, while the two sides shared some revenue from food and beverage sales, the Cubs were not involved in the gambling end of the partnership.  Long term, I’m sure that $100 million figure included some expectation of revenues to be generated from the sportsbook, and it seems unlikely that a renewal will touch that amount.

Nearly three years since the building first opened as a sports bar, I’ve only been inside once, and that was just for a quick walkaround.  The next dollar I spend there will be my first, and I don’t envision that changing anytime soon.

Fitbit 12 – Week 17

Another great week as I pushed my 30,000-step week streak to fourteen and my streak of 4000+ step days reached 83.  The week got off to a great start on Sunday thanks to a trip to Rate Field, finishing with 6100 steps.  Monday saw a small decrease, dropping down to 5300 steps.  Things kept rolling on Tuesday thanks to a lunch time walk as I charged, ending 6 steps shy of 6300.  Wednesday was the worst day of the week, going down to 4400 steps.  Thursday wrapped up with 5600 steps.  The start of Crosstown festivities on the south side between the Cubs and White Sox on Friday put me over goal, falling a single step shy of 7700.  Game two on Saturday wrapped up the week with 6800 steps.

Total steps: 42,280

Daily average: 6040

iTunes Top 200 Artists: #11-20

Music.  It is a powerful thing that brings people together, creates memories, and evokes emotions.  It is the universal language that speaks to the soul.  It forms the soundtrack of our lives.

It has now been five years since we last counted down the Top 200 artists in my iTunes library, featuring the songs I have listened to the most since 2007.  It is time to do so again, seeing which performers still resonate and if any newer ones have joined the fray.  So, without further ado, here are my most listened to artists, based on number of plays as of January 1, 2026.

We continue today with our final batch of ten artists, bringing us to the brink of the top ten.

#20: Nirvana
iTunes stats: 495 plays
Previous ranking: #20

The seven-time Grammy nominees, and one time winner, stay even on the charts thanks to 121 new listens, good for a 32% increase.

#19: R.E.M.
iTunes stats: 503 plays
Previous ranking: #18

The 2007 inductees into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame picked up 115 additional plays over the past five years, dropping them one spot.

#18: Elvis Presley
iTunes stats: 510 plays
Previous ranking: #16

The King of Rock & Roll, who died in 1977, adds 111 plays to his total from five years ago, dropping two spots in the rankings.

#17: Taylor Swift
iTunes stats: 212 plays
Previous ranking: #38

The fourteen-time Grammy winner, who is halfway towards an EGOT, saw a 158% increase with 336 new plays, thanks in part to a many new albums added to the collection.

#15: Alanis Morissette
iTunes stats: 576 plays
Previous ranking: #15

The former You Can’t Do That on Television star, who I saw in 1996 at the New World Music Theater, added 161 new listens to steady even in the rankings.

#15: Bon Jovi
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150 Years Of Cubs Baseball – Outfielders Part 1

Originally founded in 1869, the Chicago Cubs became a charter member of the National League in 1876.  Over the next 150 seasons, the Cubs have played more than 22,000 games, scored over 103,000 runs and recorded more than 200,000 hits, more than any other team in baseball history.  Nearly 2,300 players have worn a Cubs uniform, earning eight division titles, 17 NL pennants, and three World Series championships.

Fans have witnessed generations of unforgettable players, from historical heroes like Joe Tinker, Gabby Hartnett, Ernie Banks, and Billy Williams to more recent stars like Ryne Sandberg, Derrek Lee, Kerry Wood, and Anthony Rizzo.  The team has called Wrigley Field home for 110 of those 150 seasons.

To celebrate this milestone, the Cubs are holding a fan vote to select the franchise’s anniversary team.  Each week, we will go through the provided options for each position and declare who should, and, if different, who will, win the fan vote.  We continue today with the first eight selections for outfielder.

George Altman spent seven seasons with the Cubs across two stints.  Debuting with the club in 1959, he quickly emerged as one of the team’s most productive hitters, earning All-Star selections in both 1961 and 1962.  He accumulated 7.9 WAR across those two seasons while establishing himself as a dangerous power hitter.  He returned to the Cubs in 1965 but was unable to reclaim his former status and struggled to produce.  He finished his major league career in 1967, hitting just .111 in 15 games.

José Cardenal joined the Cubs for the 1972 season and stayed through 1977.  He was one of the most popular and productive players during his tenure, bridging the gap between the superstars of the 60s and the success coming in the 1980s.  He was named Cubs player of the year by local media in 1973.  His best season came in 1975, earning 3.1 WAR while hitting .317.  He was inducted into the Cubs Hall of Fame in 2022.

Kiki Cuyler joined the Cubs following the 1927 season and spent parts of eight years with the team.  During his tenure, Cuyler was one of the most dynamic offensive players in the league, helping the Cubs win two NL pennants.  He was named to his lone All-Star team in 1934 in its second year of existence.  He led the NL in three times, from 1928 through 1930.  In 1968, he was enshrined in Cooperstown as a member of the Hall of Fame.

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Book 25 (of 52) – This Story Might Save Your Life

This Story Might Save Your Life – Tiffany Crum

When his best friend and podcasting partner goes missing with her husband, Benny starts looking for clues in their shared drives and past episodes.  When the husband is found dead, the police, and the media, turn their attention towards Benny.  After he is arrested for assault and hiding evidence, he learns that his friend is alive and in hiding.  Once they are reunited, the husband’s death is ruled an accident, and everyone lives happily ever after.

Tiffany Crum’s debut novel, This Story Might Save Your Life, mixes mystery and romance.  I seem to be a sucker for mysteries and thrillers with a podcast, so this was right up my alley.  I look forward to what else she has up her sleeve.

ABC Upfronts

ABC wraps up upfront week with one of their most stable schedules in network history.  Monday once again will simulcast Monday Night Football with ESPN.  The one shock comes on Tuesday, where the next installment of Dancing With the Stars will be followed by R.J, Decker, which was considered to be a bubble show heading into this week.

Wednesday kicks off with the comedy block of Scrubs and Abbott Elementary, followed by another installment of Celebrity Jeopardy! and Shark Tank.  Thursday remains the same with the original 9-1-1 followed by 9-1-1: Nashville and the 23rd season of Grey’s Anatomy.  Friday sees Celebrity Wheel of Fortune followed by two hours of 20/20.  Sunday also stays stable, with America’s Funniest Home Videos followed by three hours of The Wonderful World of Disney.

On the bench for mid-season are new installments of High Potential, American Idol, The Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise, Shifting GearsThe Rookie, and Will Trent.  The one new scripted show for mid-season is The Rookie: North, a spinoff of The Rookie.

In a first, no shows were cancelled and never to be seen again.

Back To .500

After yesterday’s 6-5 victory over the Royals, the White Sox find themselves without a losing record past March for the first time since the conclusion of the 2022 season, when they finished 81-81.  After three consecutive 100-loss seasons, this seems like celebrating.  Now, this doesn’t mean that they are suddenly a “good” team or that they will finish the year above .500, but they do seem to be moving in the right direction and are finally entertaining to watch.

FOX Upfronts

FOX is looking for stability in their fall schedule, closely mirroring their schedule from last fall during their upfront presentation earlier this week.  The week starts with game shows on Monday, with Celebrity Name That Tune followed by Celebrity Weakest Link.  Tuesday has a second installment of Best Medicine followed by season three of Doc.

Competitions are the order of the day on Wednesday, with the latest installment of The Floor followed by 99 to Beat.  Thursdays focus on reality competitions, with new editions of Hell’s Kitchen and Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test.  Sports remains the focus on Friday, with college football and basketball filling the night.  Sunday, as always, is Animation Domination, with The Simpsons, the live-action Animal Control, Universal Basic Guys, and Grimsburg wrapping things up following football.

New shows on tap for midseason include a revamped version of Baywatch, starring Stephen Amell, The Interrogator, an espionage thriller from Stephen Fry, and Marriage Market, a reality competition show hosted by Whitney Cummings where single people give their closest family control of their love lives.  New editions of returning shows include Memory of a Killer, Fear Factor: House of Fear, Bob’s Burgers, Family Guy, American Dad!, and The Masked Singer.

Gone and mostly forgotten is Going Dutch.